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Comment on: About sunnii553

Posted in sunnii553 6 hours ago

The best I can suggest is a book by Attorney John Elmore - Fighting for your life

It talks all about the criminal justice system and how it works ... I hope it can help in your situation.

Comment on: What's on your heart and mind today?

Posted in How are you today? 19 hours ago

 in response to secrets...   

I have to ask - why did you cheat in the first place? you already said you have children and  2 homes together - what would make you cheat? If you were unhappy to begin with, why not leave then? Were you bored, nothing better to do? Then, why wait 9 years for the truth to come out? And now you are upset because he's mad? You're kidding, right?

I don't understand women like you.  You have a decent guy who treats you like gold, gives you everything you could possibly want, then you cheat..WHY? And then you wonder what went wrong? Its not you, its him, right?

It defies logic. Women like you want everything and more. If he was a jerk to begin with, you should have left then. Don't stick around because of what you won't have when he leaves.  But don't screw him up while you are there. Because when he finally does leave, he thinks every other woman is going to be just like you  - and we're not. But we are tired fo trying to FIX the guys that have been screwed up by manipulating and controlling women who do anything to get what they want. They will never have a REAL relationship with a REAL woman - because we all remind them of YOU!

They constantly wonder if we are going to cheat - we're not, but because you did, they think we probably will. 

They constantly wonder if we will trap him into marriage with a baby - we're NOT,  but because you did, they think we probably will. 

They think we are only after their money - we're not, but because you did, they think we probably are. 

They can't understand that we just want to spend time with them - we DO - because you didn't...

They can't understand why we think they are wonderful - when all you did was emasculate them in front of everyone...

WE have to work twice as hard trying to restore a man to what he was before you messed him up!   WE do it because that is what he deserves - Not some self-serving bimbo who only cares about what's in it for her. We don't want manicures, 2 houses, designer clothes, and new cars every year. WE only want someone to appreciate us for whom we are and what we do - or don't do. 

Honey, do yourself a favor -  suck it up - accept responsibility for what you did and deal with the consequences. 

Comment on: About Laura14

Posted in Laura14 20 hours ago

 in response to Holly Berry1...   

"be an advocate when needed and make sure they have all their questions answered! "

 

While this is very helpful for some senior patients, it will not work unless you have a healthcare proxy.  Due to federal law (HIPAA) health care staff are forbidden to disclose patient information to anyone other than the patient. You would need a healthcare proxy to be allowed in the room to discuss the patient's private health information  (PHI) Considering you are merely assisting the patient and NOT a family member, it would be highly unlikely the patient would grant anyone, other than a family member, a proxy. 

A Healthcare proxy is a legal document that must be witnessed by 2 unrelated individuals and kept on file in the patient's health record. It gives the individual the right to view patient information as well as make decisions regarding their care. Again, this is something that is normally reserved for close fmaily members. 

Comment on: About ICEVERYTHING

Posted in ICEVERYTHING on Mar 4, 2010

 in response to ICEVERYTHING...   

That is not necessarily true. There are thousands of scholarships out there for people from all walks of life.While the schools do provide some assistance, that should not be the end of her search either. For example, we have a local law firm that grants $1000 to 100 graduating high school seniors every year. Yes, there are stipulations, but $1000 is $1000.... Other organizations give scholarships to students for various amounts. Keep your eyes open and ask everyone you know if they have heard of any that may be helpful.

Comment on: In desperate need of help

Posted in hoss20 on Mar 4, 2010

the closest homeless shelter I could find for you was 14 miles away... the best I can suggest is this link below - you may be able to find assistance from 211.org

tarrant county 211 

Comment on: What's on your heart and mind today?

Posted in How are you today? on Mar 4, 2010

 in response to ICEVERYTHING...   Unfortunately, most people tend to take things at face value (if its on the internet, it MUST be true!)...check the facts with reliable resources and ALWAYS read the fine print!
Comment on: About ICEVERYTHING

Posted in ICEVERYTHING on Mar 4, 2010

 in response to jbell...   

the best place to check for financial aid and scholarships are:

FAFSA 

and FASTWEB

Psychcrime database - check out your shrink

Posted in whoknew on Mar 4, 2010

Most people have been to see a counselor at one time or another in their lives, but have you ever wondered who keeps tabs on the shrinks? You can check to see if the counselor/shrink you have been seeing has ever been in trouble with the law - Free and confidential....

Psychcrime database 

Comment on: About nzingha81

Posted in nzingha81 on Mar 4, 2010

Thank you for your post! You are a true inspiration!

Comment on: About abbismom09

Posted in abbismom09 on Mar 4, 2010

here are some other programs that may  be able to help

social services 

WIC 

LIHEAP

211

Comment on: What's on your heart and mind today?

Posted in How are you today? on Mar 4, 2010

 in response to u2lemon...   

This is just another scam email bashing immigrants - you might want to read and spread the truth with this:

 truth about immigants and social security

Vytorin / Zetia Class action lawsuit

Posted in whoknew on Mar 3, 2010

If you are a Consumer and you paid (or are obligated to pay) for Vytorin® and Zetia® from November 1, 2002 through September 17, 2009, please click here to read detailed information. 

This lawsuit claims that Vytorin® and Zetia® were marketed as being more effective than other anti-cholesterol drugs, and were sold at higher prices when they were no more effective than less expensive anti-cholesterol drugs. The defendants deny any wrongdoing and are settling this lawsuit to avoid the costs and expenses of further litigation.

 

 

thanks Elaine

911 calls ignored - Pa. Man dies

Posted in whoknew on Feb 28, 2010

Pa. man dies during storm when 911 calls unheeded


By DAN NEPHIN, Associated Press Writer Dan Nephin, Associated Press Writer – Sun Feb 28, 1:19 pm ET

PITTSBURGH – With her boyfriend in severe abdominal pain, Sharon Edge called 911 for an ambulance in the early morning hours of Feb. 6. Heavy snow was falling — so heavy it would all but bring the city to a standstill — and Curtis Mitchell needed to go to a hospital.

"Help is on the way," the operator said.

It never arrived.

Nearly 30 hours later — and 10 calls from the couple to 911, four 911 calls to them and at least a dozen calls between 911 and paramedics — Curtis Mitchell died at his home. His electricity knocked out, his heat long off, the 50-year-old former steelworker waited, huddled beneath blankets on his sofa.

"I'm very angry, because I feel they didn't do their job like they supposed to," said Edge, 51. "My man would still be living if they'da did they job like they was supposed to ... They took somebody that I love away."

Mitchell, on disability for depression, had a history of pancreatitis, an inflammation of the pancreas, Edge said, and had spent nine days in a hospital in late January. He had been home about a week when he was overcome with pain. Autopsy results are pending, awaiting toxicology test results, authorities said.

Now Pittsburgh officials have ordered an investigation and reforms of the city's emergency services system as Mitchell's case highlighted key shortcomings:

• Details of Mitchell's calls weren't passed on from one 911 operator to another as shifts changed, so each call was treated as a new incident.

• Twice, ambulances were as close as a quarter-mile from Mitchell's home but drivers said deep snow prevented the vehicles from crossing a small bridge over railroad tracks to reach him. Mitchell was told each time he'd have to walk through the snow to the ambulances; in neither case did paramedics walk to get him.

• Once, an ambulance made it across the bridge and was at the opposite end of the block on the narrow street where the couple lived — a little more than a football field's length. Again, paramedics didn't try to walk.

"We failed this person," said Michael Huss, the city's public safety director.

To be sure, Mitchell's ordeal unfolded as the storm dumped nearly two feet of snow on Pittsburgh; the 911 system was swamped with more than twice as many calls as usual and overall emergency response was hampered.

Regardless of how deep the snow was, Huss said it was unacceptable that paramedics didn't walk to help Mitchell. If they had, Huss believes Mitchell may have survived.

"... You get out of that damn truck and you walk to the residence," Huss said. "That's what needed to happen. We could have carried him out."

The six paramedics on the three ambulances could be disciplined, Huss said. He declined to say what that might be.

Paramedics or firefighters will now be required to go to a caller's door.

"Everyone needs to get a response," Huss said Thursday.

That Mitchell died waiting to get to the hospital is a cruel coincidence.

Edge and Mitchell met eight years ago in an emergency room. Both were getting their medications under control for their mental illnesses, she said. He was being treated for depression; she has bipolar disorder.

"We've been stuck together ever since, like glue," Edge said.

Several years ago, they moved into a small red brick rowhouse in Hazelwood, the riverside neighborhood that was home to Pittsburgh's last working steel mill, which shut down a dozen years ago.

Sitting on the tan and blue fabric sofa where Mitchell died, Edge described him.

He enjoyed watching TV, particularly westerns. They hoped to get married by a justice of the peace in April, then celebrate with a little party.

"He did for his friends," she said. "He looked out for other people when they needed stuff. He was there to help."

They didn't have a car. During the storm, a neighbor offered to drive them to a hospital but he couldn't get his car shoveled out.

Edge is a little sketchy on details of Mitchell's worsening condition and death. Then again, she didn't think she'd need to relive them. She thought they first called 911 on the night of Feb. 5, but records indicate the first call was made about 2 a.m. on Feb 6. Sometime Friday night, the storm knocked out their power and the couple sought warmth under blankets as the house got colder.

Edge said Mitchell had begun to feel stomach pains during the week, but he tried to deal with it. By Friday morning, he woke up in pain. Still, he tried to manage with medication, she said.

A review of the 911 calls by the Associated Press shows no anger in Mitchell's or Edge's voices. There was no screaming. Conversations with operators were cordial and the couple seemed to understand the difficulties the snow posed.

Still, Mitchell and Edge let them know he was in pain.

"My stomach man, it's real messed up. It's killing me," he tells a 911 operator about 11:15 a.m. on Feb. 6.

About 8 p.m. that night — in the eighth call to 911 — Edge tells an operator: "My boyfriend called for an ambulance. He's in a lot of pain and we've been waiting for a couple hours now."

At one point, Mitchell can be heard exclaiming "Oh man, what?" when Edge relayed to him that they would have to walk to the ambulance because of the snow. It was not clear when that conversation took place.

In all, three ambulances were dispatched at separate times. In each case, Mitchell was told he'd have to walk to them — and he canceled the calls.

As the hours went by, Mitchell's pain intensified and he began to have shortness of breath. Because he complained of abdominal pain, which is generally not considered life-threatening, he was initially ranked as a medium priority. About 11:20 a.m. Saturday, his priority level was upgraded, but not as an emergency.

Mitchell tried to sleep. He took his prescriptions — oxycodone for pain and sleeping pills for his insomnia. Edge gave him the medication and closely followed the dosage, she said.

"All that time, he was dying and I didn't even know it," Edge said.

Shortly before 8 a.m. on Feb. 7, Edge made her last 911 call.

"I think my husband's dead. Oh God, oh God," she sobbed.

The 911 operator told Edge to calm down and asked for the address and phone number.

"I've been trying to get an ambulance here for three days. He's been having stomach pains," Edge said.

The operator talked Edge through a check to see if Mitchell was breathing. Try to get him onto the floor on his back, the operator said.

But Mitchell's body was cold. Edge couldn't wake him.

"Oh God, he can't leave me ... Curtis? Curtis?" Edge said, struggling to move him.

The operator assured Edge that paramedics were on the way.

"He's dead," Edge said.

"No, no, no. You're going to stay with me," the operator said, continuing the checks on Mitchell.

Finally, someone came to the door.

"Who is it?" asked Edge. "Is it the medics?"

"Yes."

"All right," said the operator. "You did a good job. I'm going to hang up now. Let them in. Good bye."

The snow had long since stopped falling. It took firefighters two minutes from being dispatched to reach the couple's home.

They checked for a pulse, but it was too late.

"They said he was gone," Edge said.

It would be five more hours before workers from the medical examiner's office came for Mitchell's body.

A police officer waited with her. Edge sat on the sofa with the body.

"I kissed and hugged him," she said of Mitchell. "But it was all I could do."

 

Comment on: About Theresa73

Posted in Theresa73 on Feb 28, 2010

Why isn't your husband paying child support and alimony?

Comment on: What's on your heart and mind today?

Posted in How are you today? on Feb 28, 2010

 in response to Starrshine...   

First of all have you been to a shelter before? Have you tried ANY of the information passed on to you? Let's say someone does give you a trailer to live in. You say you have no money now, how do you plan on making ends meet then? Where do you plan on getting food from? How do you plan on paying your utilities? Getting to the doctor? Getting to a job that you say you cannot work? You think a trailer is the answer to your problems - its not!

You have housing - you have to make it liveable. Call PROFESSIONALS THAT DEAL WITH DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND ABUSE SO THEY CAN HELP YOU! If you are not willing to cooperate, then there is NOTHING ANYONE CAN DO TO HELP YOU! 

 

Comment on: What's on your heart and mind today?

Posted in How are you today? on Feb 27, 2010

 in response to Starrshine...   

Why don't you get a restraining order and press charges? The next time he gets abusive have him arrested!

there are family justice centers, domestic violence hotline


1.800.799.SAFE (7233) NATIONAL DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HOTLINE

and adult protective services that can help. 

I understand you love your cats. I have 2, but if I had to choose between me and them - there would be no choice.

No, it is not an easy situation, however you are making it harder on yourself by giving him a choice. Take yourself out of the equation. You can leave at any time you choose. But you have to make a decision. He is NOT going to change - you have to. Do you want to continue living with fear and abuse? Do you want to wonder when will be then next time this SOB will come after you? HE IS A NASTY ABUSIVE DRUNK AND HE IS NOT GOING TO CHANGE. If you think he is only going to hurt the pets, think again. First its the pets, then it will be you - if he hasn't done it already.

Call a place that is able to help you get to SAFETY.
Comment on: New Year, new you...

Posted in whoknew on Feb 27, 2010

I hope everyone is doing well with their new year... and I hope these posts have given you some incentive or at least ideas on where to make improvements in your own life.

We all want to save money, but it can be difficult sometimes. Where can you cut back when you are already stretched to the limit? With tax season here its easy to say that you are going to spend, spend, spend on all the things you missed out on in the past year. Well, that's great- we all deserve to be treated, but once that money is gone - its gone. 

Let's not forget there are bills to be paid as well. 

So how can you pay the bills, treat yourself, and save money all at the same time? 

PLAN.

Write out all the bills that you owe. Total them up. 

Compare that amount to what you may be receiving from your tax refund. Did everyone claim their EITC?

 Plan on paying off as many small bills as you can and still make small payments on the larger bills ( try to bring them up to date).

Now make a list of the things you and your family NEED - NOT WANT. 

Needs: 

clothing

groceries

haircuts

toiletries

shoes

school supplies

coats

 

wants: 

xbox

toys

computer games

perfume

manicure

Obviously make sure your family has the necessities. When you have to choose between food and rent - I would say pay the rent. You may be able to get assistance from a non-profit or social services for food - although there is no guarantee

 

So now, you have paid the bills, bought the necessities, and you actually have some money left over....

What I did, is I bought a new TV. Now hear me out before you make a comment. I bought a new TV/DVD combo. I also ordered Netflix and the box that is needed to instnatly download movies. While this was a bigger investment initially, I will save money in the long run. Since I do not watch sports, I can get my news online, and Netflix has all the shows I watch and any movie I want to see - why do I need cable for anything other than internet? I also invested in a modem ( for internet access). 

The cable company charges (RENT) for remotes, modems, cable boxes and service. Since I will not need any of these any longer I will be SAVING@ $100 per month because I will only be using internet service from the cable company and my movie service from Netflix.

So, I know you are asking what was the cost of all this?

for the new 32" TV/DVD, modem, and surge protector ( a MUST - all from Bestbuy)  @$600

Netflix subscription first 2 weeks free then $14/ month - I get 2 movies at a time by mail and can download as many movies or shows as I want.  

However, I will be SAVING @ $75-$100/ month by cutting off cable TV - therefore my investment will pay for itself in @ 6 months. After that time, I will have an EXTRA $75-$100 in my pocket every month!  And I can watch any movie I want - ( no late fees) and still have internet access. 

So while you are thinking about what to do with your tax return, think about what kind of investment you could make in yur own home and still get money back in the long run... let me know what you come up with! 

Comment on: urgently needed before 5pm monday

Posted in bearer on Feb 27, 2010

 in response to bearer...   NO, I mean did you apply for the service? Calling does nothing. You actually have to fill out an application for assistance.
Comment on: Utah Dental Clinics For Low Income

Posted in friendshelpingfriends on Feb 27, 2010

 in response to dentall...   

does she have an infection? She may need antibiotics and pain pills will not help with that.She can get examined at any ER and get a script for antibiotics. Places like walmart may give discounts on antibiotics too.

If it is a back tooth, any dentist can do an extraction instead of a root canal - much cheaper and a lot less painful. 

 

Comment on: What's on your heart and mind today?

Posted in How are you today? on Feb 27, 2010

 in response to 21 and mom of twins...   

my questions are:

Who filed the tax return? Who owes the child support? 

If you filed the tax return and your boyfriend owes the child support, then thye cannot take your money.You would be protected by "injured spouse"... But I don't see how you could even file a joint return without being married. Something doesn't make sense...

On another note... the children are 1 y/o... its highly unlikely that they will remember their birthday. Get a few things at the dollar store for them along with 2 cupcakes and let them have fun. 

One last thing.. this guy has at least 1 kid he is already paying child support for... now he has your 2 kids... and he is only 21? and they are already garnishing his taxes... Do you have a court order in place for your child support? This is a kid! He cannot possible earn enough to support himself, muchless 3 children! Are you working? I hope so. Because 4 people (you, BF and twins) CANNOT survive on minimum wage. Think!Get some birth control, get an education and get a real job that pays the bills. 

You cannot rely on anyone but yourself. Child support will do what they want, whenever they want. And if your BF decides to walk away, what will you do then? You have to raise thse children for the next 20+ years. Do you really think that $7/hr is going to cut it? This is just the first birthday, what are you going to do for the next 17? What about school, college, holidays, groceries, furniture? Do you really think it is going to get any easier? No way hon, it only gets harder! waaaaaaaaaaay harder! Just ask anyone here.

Comment on: What's on your heart and mind today?

Posted in How are you today? on Feb 24, 2010

 in response to fanatkarantok...   Educating yourself is NEVER a waste of time or money - its the best investment you could make.
Comment on: who knew?

Posted in whoknew on Feb 24, 2010

 in response to singlesurvivormomma...   You're welcome! I am glad it helps!
Comment on: About fanatkarantok

Posted in fanatkarantok on Feb 21, 2010

it does take a minute to load .. try this link:

http://www.cbsnews.com/video/watch/?id=6224124n

 if it doesn't directly connect - copy and paste the link into your address bar  - it may work that way - or you can try

http://www.cbs.com/primetime/60_minutes/

again copy and paste if you need too.. then click on "the bloom box" on their front page

 

Comment on: Why go to Church? Author unknown but suppose to a true story

Posted in Lo-Lo on Feb 21, 2010

While "church" may be fulfilling for some - others may not feel the same way. But in those cases, look around you - Even here on aidpage. The beauty, the hope, the help - you see, that is your creator in action.

I know too many who go to church just to be seen, to prove they are good christians. They do their tithing and act less than respectable during the other 6 days of the week. In my opinion, Jesus has one simple, yet profound, message:  "Love others as I have loved you." 

Seems to me, it doesn't get any easier than that... 

Comment on: About kativ

Posted in kativ on Feb 21, 2010

without knowing where you are located, it is impossible to even suggest where to look...

here is some information from the BBB which can help you prior to purchasing a new vehicle

A few things to remember BEFORE you buy: 

get the car fax!!!!!  ALWAYS!!! this should be provided to you by the dealer prior to your purchase FREE of CHARGE! 

 Take it for a test drive - if something is wrong don't buy it no matter how pretty it looks. the car should be up to par before it gets to the lot. Don't listen to salesmen who say "don't worry about that" WORRY about that!

Have your own mechanic ( that you can trust)  inspect the vehicle. While it may cost a few dollars - it is well worth the investment. You wouldn't buy a house without an inspect, why should a car be any different?  If the seller has a problem with an inspection by an independent mechanic - walk away! They are hiding something.

here is a link to more information on dealing with car dealers 

While I have never used this service, I do suggest you check out carchex. Again it will cost a fee upfront fee, but if you do not have access to a mechanic you trust, this may be the way to go. it could save you a lot of money in the long run...

Will the Bloombox put the energy company out of business?

Posted in whoknew on Feb 21, 2010

What if you never had to pay another electric bill - EVER?

What if a box ( about the size of a current furnace) made from renewable resources, could power your home 24/7/365 for @$3000 with no other payments? 

It runs on any fuel (gas, oxygen, biofuels, etc) produces more power than solar panels, and leaves no carbon footprint. Sound too good to be true? Its a reality. Its called the Bloom Box and was profiled tonight on 60 minutes. The company is going public on Wednesday and 2 of its current customers (Google & Ebay) say it really works! 

But check it out for yourself here... 

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